Pain On The Plains XV

Welcome to Pain On the Plains 15! We have an exciting year of fun planned for our annual day long event. Whether this is your first PotP or your 15th, we strive to make this a year to remember.

Before we get to the details below, If you want to register, click the black text in the big red box…


Every year, we search high and low to find presenters to help us make Pain on the Plains a memorable event. This year, we have Lady A and MsSensualSadist coming to share a taste of the evil and fun they know!

Lady A – The Kinky Empress

She has been in the lifestyle for over 20 years, actively exploring the nuances of kink from Southeast Asia to Latin America, and many locales in-between. Growing up overseas meant she started her journey in the lifestyle with an international bent, and has led to a multicultural attitude towards BDSM, kink, and relational dynamics.

Affectionately dubbed “The Kinky Empress” by her Houston community, She identifies as a Sadistic Dominant, covered Leather Master, and Pansexual Polyamorous cis Female. Today, she is a member of the Houston Scene, involved in a diverse array of projects, groups, and community activities, including NLA, HPEP, LeatherSIG, Houston Pony Play, Houston Mentor’s Alliance, Houston GLBTQ Caucus and many others. She has served on a variety of Boards and in a variety of leadership positions for the past 10 years, often focusing on education and outreach. She is best known for her presentations, demonstrations, and discussions on various EdgePlay topics.

She believes in the power of education and growth, and becoming the best version of ourselves. To that end, she teaches Leadership and Communication classes, and is also working on completing her second Masters’ degree. She is an avid reader, gamer, cosplayer, published author, mother, political activist, and volunteer and foster for numerous animal rescues. She shares her life with a loving husband & family, assorted 2 and 4 legged children, and extended Leather Family. They currently call Houston, TX home.


Breath Play

As you lay beneath me, your eyes glistening with need, my hands find their way up your chest, exploring your body. A soft moan escapes your lips, as my fingers find their way to your neck. Curling lightly around your throat, your eyes widen as your breathing becomes labored… I lean down and lock you in a tight kiss, holding you in suspense as my hands grip tighter. I feel your pulse quicken as your body fights for air. My lips continue to steal your breath from your mouth, and you start to struggle, your eyes fluttering with effort. Just before darkness sets in a sudden release of my fingers from your neck allows the air to rush past your lips as you exhale the scream of an orgasm that rocks your body.

And that’s just a small look into why I LOVE breathplay and what it does for me. But its not for everyone. Indeed breath play can add a level of excitement and thrill to a scene. The body’s natural response to oxygen deprivation can intensify orgasm, and drive sexual pleasure to new levels. But there are safety concerns that must be addressed. This demonstration and instructional session is designed for beginners to intermediate level players, and will show the various methods of breath play that can be employed, along with addressing some potential medical and health concerns, safety considerations and correct application on both male and female physique.

More Than Sting and Bite: Sensual Play with Single Tails

Single tails are often seen as an object of affection or terror. For the tops and bottoms alike, the crack of the whip is a singular sound – and everyone in the dungeon turns to look. Those who play with whips and single tails certainly delight in the fear or excitement such a sound brings. But is there more to whips than whipping it out? Can single tails be sensual? This class is for those who are interested in getting more from their single-tails than a single type of use. Topics covered include deliberate wrapping, using single tails softly, and in more “delicate” areas, ways to work through a fear of single tails for those who can’t stand the “crack”, and ways to use single tails without leaving heavy marks. Whips can be scary, but they can also be erotic and joyous. This class is a hands-on practical workshop. Attendees should come prepared to either bottom for the experience or have some experience with using whips as a top.


MsSensualSadist first entered the South Florida Leather Community in the 1990s. After so many years, she is still overjoyed to find “victims” daring enough to let her try all the crazy things that go through her mind. Claiming she is “safe” since she is a trauma nurse. She is Ms. Sunshine State Leather 2001 and in 2003 she was honored to be the first recipient of the Pantheon of Leather Florida Regional award. She presently co-leads the monthly Miami Munch, OTC which is a monthly education BDSM / Leather Discussion Group, the monthly Newbie Night at The Space and Rhythmic Beating Under the Full Moon. She is Head of House of a Leather Family, Monarch Z. She has presented at both small events and large international leather events. She adores learning from others, as well as, sharing her knowledge and experience….. Especially when it deals with the taboo.


Predicament Bondage without Rope

A difficult, perplexing, or trying situation. Oh my, what a dilemma. Awkward for the bottom. Entertaining for the Top. Come join us as we attempt to stir the imagination with a variety of positions we can place a bottom. Forget rope. Let’s use, thread, ribbons, string, staples, needles, and a variety of other goodies. Class participation will be encouraged as a Top, bottom, or both.

Wax; For Pain or pleasure. You choose

Remember sticking your finger in candle wax as a kid? We now explore and elaborate on the artistry of waxing. Dripped, splashed, and painted on…. All provide different sensations. Different types of wax are discussed. Including beeswax for deep tactile stimulation involving full body hair removal. Come and learn OR come participate. You choose.

General Information

Date and Time

Friday, July 31st from 7:00pm – 11:00pm
Saturday, August 1st from 8:30am – midnight

Registration and Hotel Information

Once you have registered, you will be sent a confirmation email with directions and venue information. If you need the information before that, please email [email protected].

We have made arrangements for a block of rooms at the host hotel, at a discounted rate of $92/night. If you are interested in the discount, mention that you are with Midwest Alternatives during booking. There are also other hotels in walking distance from the venue.


Click the link to register and pay for Pain on the Plains. See you soon!!!

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